Values Exploration

Directions: for all the following circle either “not important,” “somewhat important,” “important,” or “very important.” After you are finished, go through and look at those values you indicated as being very important; place a star next to those values that you consider to be your absolute highest priority in life (aim for a top 5).

Explanation of the values exploration: Learning our values helps us to determine what is most important to us. This can be of value in learning what sort of people we should seek to associate with, what type of workplace culture will best suit us, what philosophy of life might appeal to us, etc. A values exercise also allows us to highlight and work on internal conflicts (values that are important to us which we are currently not living in agreement with) or external conflicts (values conflicts in our relationships with others).

Artistic expression / creativity.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Belonging — to be a part of a community / family.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Compromise — to be open to give and take in reaching agreement with others.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Compassion — to feel and act on concern for others.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Courage — to stand up bravely to adversity, threats, and / or troubles.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Curiosity — to seek out, discover, experience, or learn about new things and ideas.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Diligence — to get things done that are expected of me; to be thorough.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Liberty — to be free from unjust restrictions or limitations.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Commitment — to make enduring, meaningful commitments.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Gratitude — to be thankful and appreciative for what one has or has been given.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Imagination — to think of possibilities, to think creatively, or outside the box.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Openness — to be open to new ideas, and experiences.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Comfort — to have a pleasant and comfortable life.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Rationality — to value reason, logic, and evidence.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Challenge — to face difficult challenges and master them.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Spirituality — to connect to some deeper truth / reality, or to connect with something greater than oneself.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Religion — to engage with spirituality (see above) in a traditional way, according to certain holy books, rules, or customs.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Beauty — to appreciate and find beauty in the world.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Romantic love — to value or believe in the possibility of a deep connection with another person based on one’s concept of love.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Monogamy — to devote oneself romantically / sexually to only one person.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Loyalty to others — to stand by / protect those you have chosen to be part of your closest circle of family / friends.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Loyalty to abstract entities — to commit oneself to a particular cause, nation, organization, ideology, or movement.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Non-conformity — to think for oneself, even if it means defying cultural norms, family norms, religious customs, etc.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Attractiveness — to be physically attractive.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Traditional Marriage — to form a union with another person according to the customs of one’s culture or religion.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Adventure — to have new and exciting experiences.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Freedom — to be autonomous or self-determined / independent.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Peacefulness / Agreeableness — finding common ground, avoiding of de-escalating conflict, seeking to keep the peace.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Achievement — to  have important accomplishments.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Acceptance — to be accepted as I am.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Outspokenness — saying what one thinks is right or true, regardless of whether it may rub others the wrong way.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Tradition — honoring the traditional values or customs of one’s culture / nation, and adhering to founding principles / norms.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Respect for authority — listening to and obeying those in positions of power.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Spontaneity — doing things on a whim, being adventurous, not overly planning things.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Honesty — to always (or almost always) tell the truth.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Care — to help and take care of other humans or animals.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Sexual openness — to be open to new sexual experiences, behaviors or practices.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Acceptance — to see or accept things as they are, rather than how we would like them to be.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Emotional openness — to be in touch with one’s emotions, and to freely express one’s emotions in communication or interactions with others.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Emotional regulation — to keep one’s emotions in check through rational thought, to consider reason to be more helpful than emotion, or to consider the appropriateness of emotional expression.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Integrity — to live in a way that is consistent with one’s values.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Musical appreciation — to highly value music through creation of music and / or enjoyment of music.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Novelty — to have variety and change in life.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Patriotism — to revere and be loyal to one’s nation.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Practicality — to focus on what is prudent or sensible.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Providing — to provide for loved ones.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Power — to have authority over others.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Meaning — to have a meaning or purpose to guide one’s life.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Responsibility — to do what is expected of oneself and to be accountable for one’s actions.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Humanitarianism — to help people that are in need.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Virtue — to place a high priority on acting according to one’s moral principles in all situations, and to highly value morality.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Wealth — to have an abundance of money and resources needed for living life.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Order / organization — to live an ordered and structured life.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Passion — to have deep, enthusiastic feeling about certain values, ideas, concepts, or people.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Pleasure — to feel good or euphoric.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Popularity — to be well-liked by others.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Risk-taking — to be intrepid, to take risks and chances.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Safety / security — to live in such a way that maximizes one’s safety and security.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Self-acceptance — to unconditionally accept oneself as you are.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Forgiveness — to be forgiving of others failures or misdeeds.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Self-discipline — to exercise control over one’s own actions and lifestyle.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Discipline of others — valuing a system of consequences for undesirable behavior in others.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Self-esteem — to feel good about oneself.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Service — to be of service to others.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Sexuality — to have an active and satisfying sex life.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Simplicity — to live simply, with few needs.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Solitude — to have time apart from others.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Stability — to have a life that is secure and consistent.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Tolerance — to respect and accept those different from oneself.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Non-violence — to strive to not harm others, or to strive to an end to war and violence.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Nurturance — to care for and nurture others.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Fairness — to strive for fair relations in the world.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Gentleness — to be gentle, considerate, and kind to other humans and animals.  

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Moderation — to avoid excess, and avoid harmful consumption of drugs / alcohol.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Purity — to avoid indulgence in pleasurable activities that may carry risk, except in ways that are prescribed by one’s culture or religion; or to avoid activities that are considered to be taboo (e.g., promiscuous sex, recreational drug use, etc.).

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Mastery — to excel at certain activities.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Loving — to care for and love others.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Leisure — to have plenty of time for doing relaxing or enjoyable activities.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Knowledge / truth — to be committed to discovering knowledge or truths.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Social justice — seeking to create a fair or equitable society.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Intimacy — to share my innermost experiences with others.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Inner peace — to be content, not stressed; to have a peaceful mind.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Industriousness — to work hard and to do a good job.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Independence — to be free from dependence on others.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Humor — to see the humorous side of myself and the world; to not take things too seriously.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Humility — to be modest and unassuming.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Optimism — to maintain a hopeful or positive outlook.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Helpfulness — to be helpful to others.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Health — to exercise, eat well, and live a lifestyle that promotes physical well-being.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Growth — to keep learning and growing, and becoming a better version of oneself.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Genuineness — to act in a way that is true to who I am.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Generosity — to share or give to what I have to others.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Fun — to live a fun and enjoyable life.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Friendship — to have close, supportive friends.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Flexibility — to adjust to new circumstances easily.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Family — to be committed to and spend a lot of time with one’s family.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Fame — to be known and recognized by many people; to be popular.  

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very importantbelo

Nature focus — to live a life that respects or is in accordance with nature.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Ecological concern — concern for nature / the environment.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Dependability — to be reliable and trustworthy.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Innovation — to have new and original ideas.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Kindness — to be kind and considerate to others.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Cooperation — to collaborate and work well with others.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Contribution — to make a lasting contribution to the world.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Expression — to express oneself through art or other forms of expression or creativity.

Not important  |  Somewhat important  | Important  | Very important

Spectrum Questions

Instructions: Read the definitions of the terms below and mark where you think your values lie on the following spectrum.

Conceptions of Care/Concern Spectrum

Self-interest/tribalism — to place a higher priority on looking after your own needs, and / or those one cares about deeply, than the needs of strangers.

Altruism/universalism — to consider your own needs, and the needs of those you care about deeply, as being no more important than anyone else’s.

Altruism/universalism                                                                                 Self-interest/tribalism

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Individualism vs. Collectivism Spectrum

Individualism — a commitment to freedom of the individual over the interests of the collective.

Collectivism — a commitment to the common good or the interests of greater society, over the interests of the individual.

Individualism                                                                                                                    Collectivism

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Conceptions of Freedom: Positive vs. Negative Liberty

Negative liberty — the freedom of the individual to do what they want (as long as they are not harming others).

Positive liberty — freedom of opportunity; having one’s basic needs (food, shelter, water, healthcare, protection, etc.) met or guaranteed.

Negative liberty                                                                                                          Positive liberty

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Conceptions of Fairness: Equity vs. Merit

Equity — attempting to be equitable in distribution of resources / care of others. Striving for equality (compare with merit focus below).

Merit focus — distributing resources / care based on the quality of one’s actions / how they behave or how productive / useful they are to a community (compare with equity above).

Equity                                                                                                                                             Merit

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Ethical Orientation: Duty-based ethics vs. Consequentialism

Duty — to believe in the concept of duties and to adhere to them, regardless of the consequences (compare with consequence consideration below). Example: It is not permissible to steal, even if you believe you could do some greater good by doing so.

Consequence consideration — to consider consequences of actions over duty or law, and act accordingly (compare with duty above). Example: It is permissible to steal medicine (even though it is illegal) if you believe you could achieve some greater good by doing so.

Duty                                                                                                                                 Consequences

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Respect for Authority vs. Horizontalism

Respect for authority — the view that authority and hierarchy are important or essential components of human social organization.

Horizontalism — the view that human social organization should have as little authority or hierarchy as possible or none at all; the view that all people should have equal power.

Respect for Authority                                                                                                  Horizontalism

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Intuition vs. Reasoning about Ethics

Intuition — some individuals tend to go with their “gut” on moral issues. Think of a controversial issue that you are passionate about. Does the fact that it disgusts you, or the fact that it seems “impure” affect how you feel about it (ethically)? If so, you take a more intuitionist approach to ethics, and concepts like purity may be more important to you. 

Reasoning — do you tend to ignore your initial feelings about something? Do you prefer to use logic and reason rather than going on your gut or your emotional reactions to an issue? If so, you take a more rational approach to ethics.

Intuition                                                                                                                                Reasoning

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Relativistic Ethics vs. Universal/Absolutist Ethics

Relativism — the view that what is right or wrong depends on various things, such as, what culture one is part of, the exact circumstances of the situation, one’s own beliefs / values, etc.

Absolutism — the view that what is right or wrong stays the same regardless of various circumstances, such as, what culture one is part, the situational details, what the person’s beliefs or values are, etc.

Relativism                                                                                                                          Absolutism

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